Yesterday, we said goodbye to our baby in a small service at our church. Our rector put together the most beautiful service that I wanted to share a portion of with you today. Not only as a part of my own journey, but also because so many of you have reached out and shared that you have walked this road before as well. May this prayer give you the same comfort it gave me.
(Adapted from the Reform Jewish Prayer Book)
Memories of this child will come to this family, unbidden, sometimes unexpected, in all the various moments of their lives. Although memories may bring pain, they also bring comfort, for as long as you remember, this child is still part of you.
In the rising of the sun and its going down,
we will remember this child.
At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter,
we will remember this child.
At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of spring,
we will remember this child.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of summer,
we will remember this child.
At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of autumn,
we will remember this child.
At the beginning of the year and when it ends,
we will remember this child.
When we are weary and in need of strength,
we will remember this child.
When we are lost and sick at heart,
we will remember this child.
When we have joys we yearn to share,
we will remember this child.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make,
we will remember this child.
Merciful God, look upon the sorrows of this family for whom we pray. Remember them in your mercy; nourish them with patience; comfort them with a sense of your goodness; lift up your countenance upon them; and give them peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
